Love
is a genuine feeling only for those people who are mature enough to dare for it
and care for it. Love never comes to those who haven’t become mature enough in
their life. Sadly, in today’s life-style it is hard to find such a person who
is mature enough to deserve love.
Love never happens for temporary things
like beautiful face or personality or wealth. The everlasting feeling of love
always looks for permanent and strong things like nature, ideas, thoughts,
views, gesture and behavior.
Love is like a co-valent bond. There is
nothing like ‘give’ or ‘take’ in love. It is all about sharing. Like carbon and
hydrogen share electrons in co-valent bond, lovers share feelings, care, trust,
commitment and life. Where there is anything like give or take as in the ionic
bond of Sodium Chloride where Sodium always gives and Chlorine always takes, it
cannot be love. Because, one day the person who is in the habit of giving might
become proud for making all contributions and the person who always takes might
feel guilty of doing nothing at all. There could be another situation like the
ultimate giver may get irritated and the ultimate taker starts taking it for
granted. Love is, however, to be valued. And value is in sharing. Love is all
about sharing.
Love always happens to people alike each
other. The theory of ‘opposite attracts’ works well for friendship. But for
love, the ultimate theory of ‘birds of same feather flock together’ works. The relationship
which grows on the theory of opposite attracts, more or less meets an end. In my
opinion, love flourishes when the lovers share good understanding. And understanding
comes when the two actually feel each other’s feelings. It can happen only when
both of them have gone through similar phases of life. It is quite unreasonable
to expect a person sweet by nature, to understand the toughness one bears in
his/her persona. Though both of them could be mature, it becomes really hard to
maintain such a relation which counts more on differences than the
similarities. Mostly people like that very instinct in anybody’s nature which
they don’t have in themselves. But such a relation can count well on friendship,
not on love. Love flourishes between people who are similar because such a
relation develops and goes easy on understanding.
Love adjusts not compromises. If there are
a lot of compromises, then certainly it is not love.
Love never makes one feel guilty. If you
feel guilty for loving someone, then certainly there is some hidden selfishness
in this relation. Or maybe, you know that you are not the right person for
him/her. Better, you let it go.
Love never weakens. Love is a powerful
feeling. It always strengthens the lovers. It gives them the courage to fight
the odds and get a way which suits everybody. Love is like a flamboyant river-stream
which finds its own way, cutting all the rocks coming in the way and finding a
way through all the obstacles. And what makes it more miraculous that even
after going against the rocks; it makes them more meaningful than before.
Love never destroys. Love has the power of
construction which creates trust, faith, care and commitment.
Love never makes you feel ashamed. If you are
afraid of accepting it in front of anybody, then certainly you are not in love.
Truth is, the moment you fall in love, you actually rise in life.
Love gives the strength to confront life
more enthusiastically and joyously.
Love makes life beautiful.
There are no people like boyfriends or girlfriends
in the world of love. There are just lovers who care for their love.
Love is not a thing of timepass. Those who
try to pass time with such a genuine feeling like love, are actually destroyed
by its chastity and mostly remain unloved all throughout their life.
There is only one desire in love - to make
the other happy and feel special. Love just counts. It happens unexpected but
stays forever.
There is nothing like show-off in love. It
is just the surplus amount of happiness which gets reflected itself.
Love is very precious and comes only to
those who are capable enough to value it and care for it. It never goes to those
who try to play with it or make fun of it. Love never goes to kids or immature
people who cannot hold it.
Only mature, truthful and honest people
are blessed with love in life.
A successful marriage does not count on
its being love marriage or arrange marriage. It simply depends on the two
people involved. Be it any kind of marriage, its success always counts on love.
It is just a myth that arranged marriages are more successful. It is only that
arranged marriages mostly happen on the family’s will. It may at times be full
of compromises and sufferings and sacrifices. But since the parents do not get
their children married on the basis of feelings, they seem a petty issue for
them. However, such a condition simply leads to depression and destruction. Similarly,
just a love marriage cannot guarantee success if the people aren’t mature
enough to value and care for relations. There is actually nothing like love
marriage or arranged marriage at all. In the former, you find your life-partner
before your parents do and in the latter; your parents find your life-partner
before you do. Whether you’ll live a happy life or not simply depends on your
maturity. It is quite a foolishness to destroy one’s life just in the name of
sacrifice for parents. If your parents are unable to understand your feelings,
then it simply means that you didn’t maintain such a healthy relation with your
parents which is called a mutual bond. And if you find that the person your
parents chose is right, your love story starts at that very instinct leading
you to a love marriage. Similarly, the moment you find a person whom you find
alike, who understands you and completes you, you yourself discover the ways to
appease your parents which leads you to a happy arranged marriage. It all depends
on finding the right person who could make you complete. And the ability to
figure out the right person comes by maturity. Maturity comes by
responsibilities and life-experiences. Responsibilities and life-experiences
second a self-made person. People are self-made by struggles. Struggles give
the experiences of life. And those who experience life, value love in every
ways. Self-made people do not rely on external reasons. They become mature enough
to make their life beautiful on their own. And they know that the key to a
beautiful life is love.
Love means falling for the same person
every new day for a new reason always a new way…
There is also a bit of intense insanity in
love. Because if it is not insane, it is not love…
Concluding,
Love
is a genuine feeling only for those people who are mature enough to dare for it
and care for it…
